Instead of thinking you need to change your body so you can love your body ("after I've lost 20 pounds, I'll be happy with who I am"), do it the other way around. Love your body so you can change it. LOVE YOUR BODY. LOVE YOUR SOUL.
Zero points: Cauliflower popcorn (Break a head of cauliflower into popcornlike, bite-size florets, then spread them on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper. Spray the cauliflower lightly with butter-flavor cooking spray, then sprinkle lightly with turmeric, freshly ground pepper, and sea salt. Bake 20 to 30 minutes at 425 degrees F or until the cauliflower is slightly browned.) (1 cup = 29 cal., 5 g carb., 0 g fat, 2 g pro.)