Sometimes its hard to be the bigger person, and not hurt back when you have all the power and proof to do so. But For the few hours that I did fight back, it exhausted my inner soul. I would rather appear to have lost then bring that karma into my life.
The magic of Christmas is not in the presents, but in HIS presence. ((True... we always spoil our kids a little on Christmas--BUT we always make sure they know the REAL reason for religious holidays...))