For many grievers, tears come in private places like the car or the shower, the garden or the closet . Just because you don't see us crying doesn't mean we aren't feeling the loss. To the contrary, we feel their loss QUITE DEEPLY.
Oh yes. It was a surreal period in time. No one can even try to imagine what it is like until they also are forced to endure it. This day for me as 23 years ago on May still feels wrong that my dad died that many years ago.