How about being the person you are instead of telling women they have to live up to someone else's expectations? Why when talking about being the woman you want to be are they always showing a picture? Are women only seen?
“Courage does not always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, 'I will try again tomorrow.” ― Mary Anne Radmacher ["never let a bad day be enough to go and talk you into giving up.