"There is a difference between sharing your issues about someone with a safe person for advice/prayer/etc. and bashing that person behind their back with no intent of making things better, forgiving, parting ways on good terms, etc.
She said it's not a project you can do the night before. 16 hours before project is due: "I should start that project." 9 colored pencils, one glue stick, a puppy, one 10 page essay, and 12 hours later: "She underestimated my power."