Yes, keep calm and just keep laughing...but I laugh because I know you read it, you know its true and even better I know it hurts you. It hurts you so bad you can't even fake civil. By the way, you can have them as my gift to you, I'll even deliver them.
I like this because we have all looked at others and thought they had it all together. Truth is that no one does, we are all struggling in one way or another, and there is NO ideal. Look in the mirror and do what you can for your life and your situation