I have a very dear friend that will ALWAYS see the glass half empty and the keys stolen, the cat dying.....I just don't go there. There is always a fork in the road, and I choose the one that looks promising. Whatever Fresh Hell blew by, I made it.
Unfortunately we learn a little late down the path that most things that we worry about and give our utmost intentions to dont really give us comfort . Stopping and putting things in perspective of fond memories and happiness doesnt happen often enough.