I guess this is something i tried to do as a Mom...I tried to love my girls the way I needed my parents to love me...i think i may have overcompensated in some areas, but for the most part, i think i did a good job. I love this quote
Many do it for the prize. That's not kindness at all. Then there are those who say they will help and merely show up. They don't do anything except tell others that they were there. These are the same people who expect others to help them continuously.