who we think another is ... is who WE are. one of the great paradoxes of life. as within, so without. to see accurately who someone is? well, each of us is infinite, with infinite parts and selves ... i don't know that we ever can, or want to, any more than we want to ever define who we are.
I used to be like that, uithol people around me made me think I was not right. You made me remember who I was. And now i'm lost in a situation that I don't want to be, hurting people I don't want to hurt. What is the wise think to do? Settle again for what I have and forget the wild me? Or risk or and maybe end up with nothing?
"It's the way people try not to change that's unnatural. The way we cling to what things were instead of letting things be what they are. The way we cling to old memories instead of forming new ones. The way we insist on believing despite every scientific indication that anything in this lifetime is permanent. Change is constant. How we interpret change is up to us." Grey's Anatomy quotes