You save the wedding cake from splattering all over the floor by taking action instinctively! You resist the momentum as much as possible to break your fall. Sometimes you win and sometimes you lose, but without action failure is a foregone conclusion!
Sometimes its hard to be the bigger person, and not hurt back when you have all the power and proof to do so. But For the few hours that I did fight back, it exhausted my inner soul. I would rather appear to have lost then bring that karma into my life.
Mark (The Power of Faith) When you ·are praying [stand praying], if you ·are angry with [have anything against] someone, forgive him so that your Father in heaven will also forgive your ·sins [transgressions; trespasses].