I've been in this place ..and that's when I just hold on to everything I know and believe about my Lord. We are told in his word to pray without ceasing. So pray in good times and pray even harder in bad times.
Proverbs 18:22 (KJV) - "He who FINDS A WIFE, finds a GOOD THINGS and obtains favor from the Lord." Nowhere in this Scripture do I find it telling women to go find a man, ask them out or ask them to marry them. Notice that when he pursues and finds her, it's favor of the Lord and what he finds is GOOD. When it's reversed,,, well, let's just say, it's not all rainbows and sunshine. So STOP SEARCHING AND WAIT ON THE LORD.
I've needed this verse. I've struggled, oh how I've struggled, with believing that God has a plan for me, because I see myself as such a failure in even the most simplest of things, and how can anything good come from this, from me? Tears came streaming one evening, a flow that could not stop, I felt so hopeless... That was when I felt God so close to me, I felt His hand comfort me, and whisper in my ear that He loved me, so why should I doubt Him?