Making yourself a priority is not selfish it's an act of self-love. When you are real and honest it may piss some people off but frankly that's their problem. Getting to know yourself and learning to trust your intuition is so important. You learn what you can and should give to others and you also learn when to walk away.
"I AM" Chakra painting by Dr. Laura Koniver. "If you could greet each day saying and *feeling* these truths, taking a moment to connect deeply with each one, your health would blossom (from bottom chakra to top): I am safe I am creative I am strong I am loved I am expressive I am connected I am Divine"