Step 2c: Of course, he can't use that nice new girly body wash with his hands, or an old wash cloth! He needs his very own, bright pink, bath loofa. It's good for his skin and rubbing that pink ball of femininity all over his body is sure to remind him of his new place in life.
Step 1f: It's time to really get serious. Once you boi accepts lace as a a suitable material, give him a pair of matching black lace panties, but in a thong cut. Just as you've had to train him to appreciate better materials, you have your work cut out for you getting him to accept and embrace different panty cuts. Make him take baby-steps toward your goal, they are much more successful than giant leaps.
Step 11c: Sissy Life Swap-Out! Just because the world won't see it doesn't mean it should be Girly! In fact that's the best place to start...your gurl can't complain too much about something that no one will ever see! Ditch those borrring white T's and put him in cute Cami's, soft Tanks and feminine T-shirts.
Step 11a: Sissy Life Swap-Out! Now that your sissy is settling into her new life, it is time to reinforce that attitude. Everything around her needs to become feminine. Take your gurl shopping for jeans, but not sad looking boy jeans...she's getting cute girl jeans now!
Step 10: Your sissy needs to always think like a girl! Get her a diary and have her write a few mantras every day! "I want to be a girl!" "I want to be pretty!" "I love panties!" Have her write these over and over again. Find images you like and have them made into posters for her room; waking up everyday and seeing reminders about looking and feeling girly will help her accept it.