Moving from victim mentality, as in "I have no power and am a victim of my circumstances", to an empowered place, as in "Despite what has happened, I am making mindful decisions", can create a huge shift in how life is experienced.
I never wish any bad to happen to anyone friend, enemy or family. But your constant reminder of what Karma will do to Me is just not your job. What you have participated in to try and destroy My life, remember Karma? I'll keep in mind my maker Not your Hate and Discontent with Me.