"Slavery still negatively impacts black people, it's not a secret. One of the most obvious impacts: The slave masters tried to mentally break the enslaved Africans. While validating themselves as superior, they used every propaganda tool within their power to teach black people to hate themselves. The results still have major impact on the psyche of black people today."
Truth. Relationships with those with NPD not only change who you are but also keep you from actually knowing who you are, and they do it by manipulating, blackmailing, gaslighting, humiliating and degrading you. They condition you to second-guess everything you do and they have you believing that love has to be earned. http://reclaimingalife.wordpress.com