There is nothing like you out there. A beautiful dark-haired woman is a thing of beauty. And to top it all off, you have an equally beautiful blonde best friend. The logical thing for you two to do is to get matching t-shirts!
People will always disappoint us because we are all imperfect. but we can give grace w/o being a doormat. If we cut off relationships of those who disappoint us, we will end up alone. But leaving them in my life makes me lonely too.