Some people never learn how to fight, instead choosing to trudge along in a disappointment and complacency; which means they never truly learn to appreciate the bliss or paradise that comes with the renewal of making up. Fight and make up, instead of give up.
It is well accepted that negative thoughts and anxiety can make us ill. Stress — the belief that we are at risk — triggers physiological pathways such as the “fight-or-flight” response, mediated by the sympathetic nervous system. These have evolved to protect us from danger, but if switched on long-term they increase the risk of conditions such as diabetes and dementia. -- Jo Marchant #PlaceboEffect