It's called confidence -- in your ability to give it your BEST shot: "Being forced to work, and forced to do your best, will breed in you temperance and self-control, diligence and strength of will, cheerfulness and content, and a hundred virtues which the idle will never know." ~ Charles Kingsley
Motivation stems from lack of expectancy and lack of value. To further understand motivation it is important to know that the student must believe they can, and it may be smarter to scaffold to build expectancy rather than, "you can do it."
Only those special people who you truly care about and trust enough to not judge and u actually reveal to them who you really are. The best feel in gin the world is when you show the person you truly love who you really are and it makes them love you even