Not sure I was wise enough to follow this 5 years ago but I will forever follow it in the future. Oh the life lessons I have learned...evil never wins and revenge never turns out in your favor. Not scared to admit that I learned this one the hard way :-(
I think sometimes I believe that forgiveness is a miscarriage of justice. But really not forgiving destroys both you and the person who made the mistake. Forgiveness should be the core thing that all of us focus on. Just that alone could change the world.
You may not able to control every situation and its outcome, but you can control your attitude and how you deal with it.....similar to what I say a lot....if you can't change the situation, the only other thing then that you can change is your attitude.