You are what you think about the whole day, the reveries where you dwell, the obsessions that capture your undivided attention and the dreams you create. So let go of bad thoughts and have just good ones.
"be yourself. if you water yourself down to please people or to fit in or to not offend anyone, you lose the power, the passion, the freedom, and they joy of being uniquely you. it's much easier to love yourself when you are being yourself.
No-one owes you anything. You owe the world something. Grow up, get out of your dream world and stop whining. Stop wishing. Start behaving like a responsible person. You are important, you are needed. You are somebody and some day is today.