Your situation doesn't change God's character, but your character can change your situation. Trust God and his word to be truth, for he is not a God who can lie. Praise him in the difficult times, he is faithful. - Steven Valentine
Tomorrow is a New year. That means you have a blank slate. Don't like who you are? Change it. It's like writing a book, every chapter is blank until you fill it. Fill chapter 2013 with things you want to remember and feel good about.