oh come on, she certainly is a downgrade. but seriously? are you in love with her?! you will treat her as bad as you treated me...because you are a liar, cheater and a major douchebag. you are the problem, not me.
Be a once in a life time partner - male or female. Be love filled, grace filled, joyful, a hard worker who shares in the burdens or carries them awhile your partner is not able. Shower them with kindness. Laugh often. Be other focused. Supportive. Communicate lovingly. Be respectful. Proverbs 31 woman. Relationship / marriage - always be the best you can be.