Just The Way You Are. Honestly you are! no matter how many mistakes you are still amazing. Everything has a purpose. God has your back. You just have to believe that you are amazing... not because anyone says it... but because is the truth!
I think the almost infinite freedom this truth represents is overwhelming to many people. Thus, their adherence to the lines. I think people who understand and enjoy this freedom are happier. But the others cannot be pushed. It must always be a choice.
And ditto every great woman. This is the ideal, at least, that those who have true greatness will be accompanied on their journey by people whose greatness consists, at least in part, in their ability to recognize greatness and be its needed companion.