Do you know how sometimes you have a bad day, and it may cause you to be a bit short with your kid or partner? And then, later, you go to them and say: I am sorry I was short with you, I was just worried/tired/busy/other, … We all do that, right? Well, not the toxic person. They live in a blissful world where nothing is ever their responsibility. When bad things happen, it is because the world is against them! When they are raging abuse at you, it is because YOU made them angry.
So very true. I've thought about this more than ever recently. Have you ever sat quietly and thought this to yourself as someone is bold face lying to you? And it's over silly stuff, like fantasy stories or things they have(but don't).. :-/ It makes me wonder how stupid they think I am, or what they feel is being accomplished by petty lies. Go ahead and keep telling me the same story five times over; with a new twist every time because you forgot the first way you told it. You should put…
And that also doesn't mean you don't like males,females or non binary people over one or the other because I like guys more but that doesn't mean I don't like females or non binary people we all have preferences
Why do I care about all the wrong things, and nothing at all for the right ones? Or, to tip it another way: how can I see so clearly that everything I love or care about is illusion, and yet for me all that's worth living for lies in that charm? A great sorrow, we don't get to choose our own hearts. We can't make ourselves want what's good for us or what's good for other people. We don't get to choose the people we are.~ Donna Tartt ~ artist Tsuyoshi Nagano
We shouldn't hate others for what makes them different. We should accept people for what they are and what they do. We all have our differences, we are all unique and equally important.