why must you hurt me like this? | But really though. This post is accurate. It makes me so sad that Dean doesn't know his self worth and I think that's also partly due to the fact that those who care about him have drilled it into his head (not intentionally of course!) - John who made Dean the soldier instead of the child and Sam who quite often turns his back on his brother because he has a (understandable) desire for a normal life.