The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but thought about it. Be aware of the thoughts you are thinking. Separate them from the situation which is always neutral. It is as it is. ~Eckhart Tolle
"If we’re going to warn people of the perils of Big Gulps and French fries, shouldn’t we warn them of the dangers of pre-marital sex? If we’re going to go so far as ban sugary drinks and salt, shouldn’t we at least advocate abstinence?"
Reminds me of the message in the movie about time. "Tim: And in the end I think I've learned the final lesson from my travels in time; and I've even gone one step further than my father did: The truth is I now don't travel back at all, not even for the day, I just try to live every day as if I've deliberately come back to this one day, to enjoy it, as if it was the full final day of my extraordinary, ordinary life."