People have to pretend you're a bad person so they don't feel guilty about the tings they did to you. God forbid they be accountable for their BS. *Wouldn't it be easier to admit you messed up, be forgiven and have a good relationship with that person? =/
Don't just agree that you should show respect. ACTUALLY BEGIN TO ACT AND SPEAK AND THINK WITH RESPECT TOWARDS YOUR HUSBAND. Showing gratitude and respect to your husband will help him feel important in your life. As a result, he will strive to become the man God wants him to be.