You want them to acknowledge the pain they have caused you. They either can't or won't affirm the truth. Don't stay another moment more in a relationship where your feelings are treated as ridiculous, meaningless, childish, or crazy.
Guilt trips might be the bread and butter of many family communications but they are rarely as benign as we might think. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-squeaky-wheel/201305/the-psychology-and-management-guilt-trips