Homemade Fabric Softener (My clothes are SO soft - softer than with store-bought, and smell fresh and clean. The scent of the conditioner is definitely there. This recipe makes a lot of softener, so I only made half.)
How to get oily stains out of clothes that have been washed and dried several times. . . Palmolive Dish Soap. Put a fair amount on, rubbing it around to cover the oily stain well and let it soak for ONE HOUR. Then just throw it in the washer and run a cicle.