I have tried to take this picture in a way one youtuber, Connor Franta, does. I used the ___ setting which allows us to manually set the blur, temperature, and focus. I discovered this while playing around with the camera and was extremely helpful. I don't think the aperture setting works well because it is too technical. But this setting makes it easy and effective to blur the background or foreground and also set the kind o f mood you want in the pucker: sunset, normal, rain, and e.t.c.