For those OW who feel they had a LDR with him he said "NO WAY. I met rednecks and dumb hilliblies in bars and F___ed them.That is all. My alcohol addiction and sex additions is what Led me to make these stupid choices along with women who had no self respect and were more that willing." We do have a marriage that has lasted all these years through many challenges.. We work at it and he says he is blessed to have been given a second chance.
In our first years every fight we wondered if we'd make it. Any little argument and we acted like it was the end. Over time we've realized we both can have shitty moods, shitty days. We will fight. We will even dislike each other sometimes. But we move on, make up (eventually) & stick it out. And damn it's so worth it.