See to it that noone misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. Heb The battlefield's in the mind.. Don't leave an opening to the fiery darts of the enemy.. When you're free in Christ, you're free indeed!
...let emotions cool down, temper feelings of hurt and sadness. Even feelings of exhilaration can lead us astray. Important decisions should never be made in haste or in the heat of anger. Sleeping on it prevents many errors in judgement. ~ Jeanne Rivard
Which is different than saying an untruth.. that all is okay, when darkness is done... It is not it creates more pain and suffering and makes it all much more difficult.. Evil is evil.. and is created by man (therefore must fall away) it is not of God
No one can tell you what goes on in between the person you were and the person you become. No one can chart that blue and lonely section of hell. There are no maps of the change. You just come out the other side. Or you don't.