Listen, daughter, pay attention and consider: forget your people and your father’s house, and the king will desire your beauty. Bow down to him, for he is your lord. The daughter of Tyre, the wealthy people, will seek your favor with gifts. Psalms
We would write our own ceremony, but I think I would like a reading from his mother taken from the bible. Either the Corinthians passage on love (because it is sweet) or something from the Song of Solomon. Although it is kinda dirty.
Reflect on what strikes you as you read. Think through what God is communicating to you at this point in your life. Speak to God directly about what's on your mind and heart. Look for ways to live out what you've uncovered. John