A Word on Selfishness........it's not all about you anymore after you have children.....one must always think of what's best for their children. But then, sometimes when we wake up, it is to late and then we must just live with it.
When we make a change, it's so easy to interpret our unsettledness as unhappiness, and our unhappiness as a result of having made the wrong decision. Our mental and emotional states fluctuate madly when we make big changes in our lives. Some days we could tight-rope walk across Manhattan, and other days we are too weary to clean our teeth. This is normal. This is natural. This is change.