I agree with most of this. I hate conflict as do most people. I don't dislike comparison because how do you know if something is better if you don't know when something is worse and vice versa. And seeking Improvement is all about comparison. We have better homes, safer cars, cleaner air, etc., because we compared them to previous versions and made improvements. Comparison should be used as a tool to seek improvement when necessary.
Some ppl like to be right even if they are dead ass wrong. Even after the proof have been giving. I like to be corrected: THAT'S THE ONLY WAY YOU LEARN ANYTHING ON ANY LEVEL .. NO ONE IS RIGHT ALL THE TIME .. BECAUSE THEY WILL HAVE IT ASSUMED THAT YOU ARE PERFECT.. WHO IS THAT? I WOULD LOVE TO MEET THEM .. LOL :)
And people wonder why I've closed up my walls. Every time I let someone in, they always break me one more tiny time. Now, I just don't even care! Fucking rip whatever's left of me and throw it out. I'm so done