My mother in law just reminded me that you can't help the unsaved, all you can do is pray for them, so that's what I will continue to do. Thank you Jaimee for keeping me in the loop of what she is doing again. I guess there's no escape.
This eliminates NO. (and You've got to be kidding me) Of course, we would like a God who never says NO, flat out and without explanation, but I think He occasionally does that and we have to recognize that as a sovereign He has the right to do so.