When you make a decision to have a child you're also making the decision to take responsibility for that child. You don't abandon your obligation as a parent because you have "other plans". I'm over deadbeat parents!
This one kind of shocked me a bit. Is it a memorial or a mass grave? I would guess that it is a "pauper's" gravesite for orphaned/abandoned children. thats so sad people still dont take having babies seriously.