I know I fucked up. My lie fixed something that was broken for a reason. He was a dickhead. And at the same time I cursed myself right out of your life. If I had told the truth you guys would have broken up and we would still be talking. And you would probably be my girlfriend right now. You would not have stayed mad at me because he already knew and how could you be mad at me for telling the truth.
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As CYC workers we have to really pay attention this reminds me to read between the lines. If a person is saying they are fine and their body posture is saying something different I have to trust that there is more and ask the right questions.
Seriously ! Sure you don't have time , sure you must be really important, I understand- but they don't . Stay away if you want to ,make excuses , they don't need to live confused, thinking it must be something they did - it's not them it's you!!