nice words implies insincerity, and disingenuous subterfuge. KIND WORDS, are what eminates from a compassionate, forgiving and gentle nature. who the fuck still believes that "nice" means anything positive in this current reality?
You don't have to like someone to recognize their human dignity. It's called class. You don't have to be their best friend to be the bigger person. Drop the drama from ten years ago & just forgive. Free YOURSELF! Anger is always a secondary emotion. So ask yourself what is really going on behind their hate AND yours.