Most men cannot listen to a woman's feelings and realize the way he handles it, responds to it, what he does from that moment on sets the tone. Often she's not bitching to bitch, she's needing you to hear something and learn. Her expression of her feelings and needs does not make her a bitch.
There's nothing like a sad, slow song to aid in a postbreakup cry or to be the soundtrack to a bad day. It's a well-known fact that music is made to bring out emotions in all of us, but what may come as a surprise is that sad music can have the opposite