"Imperfect people are all God has ever had to work with. That must be terribly frustrating for Him, but He deals with it and so should we" -Elder Holland It's important to remember that we are all human and should deal with and accept our imperfections:)
I don't chase but do spend too much time caring and staying in touch years when they don't bother to check on me. I never seen that as a flaw. My love for others is stupid. I need to just leave people alone. I'm better off alone anyway and happier.