Recently learned to choose your friends wisely! Lift them up and encourage in love when they are down or struggling! Don't gang up or attack in a condescending way! They may forgive you but may never trust you with their heart again!
You may not able to control every situation and its outcome, but you can control your attitude and how you deal with it.....similar to what I say a lot....if you can't change the situation, the only other thing then that you can change is your attitude.