I've posted this once before but I think it's a great reminder. Most people come and go but if they've been in our lives it's likely because there are some great things about them. So when things end relationships go south painful things happen....we have a belief system that says we should hate the person...or that we shouldn't want to have anything to do with them. When we start to miss someone it can become confusing. We might question why we're feeling this way about someone who has hurt us