Great idea for a 21st birthday! "Life Lessons" everyone at the party writes out a life lesson they've learned over the years and rolls it up like a scroll and puts it in the jar. Give it as a gift at the end of the night. It's a keepsake from their 21st and an inexpensive but meaningful gift.
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