Gus, The Asparagus - Kaylene Hobson Great picture book about Gus being different and having 'asparagus syndrome' (Aspergers) but is upbeat, positive and quirky. This is the book I will use with my 6 year old to disclose his diagnosis.
A Different Dream for My Child: Meditations for Parents of Critically or Chronically Ill Children. Trailer here for her books. This books addresses faith questions - why does God allow suffering of my child? Etc