Don't judge...What u see us go through is just a whiff of what we r really feeling...You have no idea how much it has effected & changed every cell, atom & molecule of our being unless u have it too. Rheumatoid Autoimmune Disease destroys. We have no choice but to fight back so it doesn't rip us off completely of our lives & relationships. Get informed not only of the disease but about how it affects loved ones. Your understanding & support is the greatest gift u can give us.