That's why everything is so hard. I feel too much, or not at all, I care too much, or not at all. Seeing the world through your heart instead of your eyes just makes you look crazy to everyone who just sees with their eyes.
I refuse to get to the end of my life and realize how much I've missed because of working too much. As long as our bills are paid and we are happy and loving our life, that's good enough for me. And yes, we are planning for our future as well.