Being A Witch P5 If one rubs you the wrong way, it's still possible that another will fit better with your personality. Reading various books and websites will help you figure out which is Witch. The next step is to test it out. After all, you wouldn't marry someone without going on a date first! Take it for a spin! At some point, you'll want to participate in a ritual. This is the core spiritual exercise of Wicca. You can do one on your own, if that's what you'd like.