A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. After all, time has a mind of its own!
#narcissists play dumb ... like posting, "go ahead, judge me, just remember to be perfect for the rest of your life (like living in one man's house, having a one-night stand with another, moving forward to date a third, all to fall back on option two is ever considered "perfect")
25 Common Misconceptions of a Narcissist SO very worth re-pinning over and over again! this is the absolute truth! never forget that it is a choice! selfishness and lack empathy. it is a learned behavior. generation after generation. maternal narcissism destroys families. no contact. greed. love those who love you.
Some abusers are unlikable, flagrant egotists. Others can be charming, intelligent, caring--that is, until their guru-status is threatened. When you stop stroking their ego or beg to disagree, they turn on you and become punishing. Once you catch onto this pattern, an abuser seems about as charming as a banana peel. These people are so dangerous because they lack empathy.
When we are stuck in the vacumous atmosphere of planet narcissist, we can’t see the abuse for what it is. We call it Love. We try harder, making ourselves more vulnerable, more patient, more understanding, but the narc just reads that we’re available to take more supply from. The more we let them use and abuse us, they view it as tacit approval to continue to abuse us, and if we stay, that is what they will do.
For those of you who know what it is like trying to love a narcissist/sociopath - whether it be a family member, a partner, a spouse. Trying to love a narcissist and have a normal relationship, is not possible. They are empty at their core, and do not have the capability, for real love. This was not your fault. The issues, were theirs. - After Narcissistic Abuse - There is Light, Life & Love's
What Does the Bible Say About Narcissistic Behavior?
Heartfelt Quotes: Some people will only "love you" as much as they can use you. Their loyalty ends where the benefits stop.
I have been hurt, nearly destroyed & yet all I read hasn't convinced me he did it on purpose. Or that he's a monster. If he is, then none of what we had was ever real. I can't make sense of or peace with that.