Making yourself a priority is not selfish it's an act of self-love. When you are real and honest it may piss some people off but frankly that's their problem. Getting to know yourself and learning to trust your intuition is so important. You learn what you can and should give to others and you also learn when to walk away.
It's imperative that you learn to love yourself because if you don't, you will then attract the wrong people. When you are confident, you acknowledge your strengths and value your worth. This in turn exudes an aurora that radiates self-love and self-acceptance. ❤️